Kink Play: Ropework

Last night was absolutely amazing. We went and had dinner with Kinky Couple, and then went back to their place. The meal was very casual, very vanilla but great fun. They're very easy to get along with and we had a great time. We hung around at their place for an hour or so afterwards before Mr. Kinky Couple invited us upstairs to do naughty things.

We had already prearranged many of the things we wanted to do, and talked about our rules and hard limits. Being the more inexperienced couple, our rules went apparently. We have a few hard limits but the main one is that we don't play with guys. We both identify as queer (possibly bisexual, but the explanation for that is about twenty pages long, so maybe another day) so we don't play with men, but we didn't mind Mr. Kinky Couple being around. Which was probably a good thing because he schooled me for a large part of the night.

The GF and I switch, sometimes she is submissive to me and sometimes I am to her, it works for us. Sometimes. We're both pretty much the same strength so it can get a little hairy when one of us tries to brat the other. Mr. Kinky Couple is very definitely the Dominant in his relationship though. Within two minutes of being in the room he looked at Miss Kinky Couple, and gave her the Dom eyes that even make my knees melt and told her to take her clothes off. We hadn't ever played with them before and it was a bit surreal going from drinking red wine in the lounge room to being in their bedroom, with her half-naked. Not that I ever complain about their being topless girls around.

Mr. Kinky Couple was going to teach me some ropework, so the GF undressed as well. There is almost nothing sweeter than two beautiful girls in nothing but their underwear beside each other. Especially when I'm not one of them and get to watch. We tried a simple double wrist binding to start with and while it was a bit messy, I was pretty pleased with the result for my first shot at it:

She's charming, I know.

After that Miss Kinky Couple and the GF untangled themselves. Miss KC has the most amazing ability to wriggle out of most bondage and she had been tied up with the same knots as the GF, and she was nearly totally out of hers within three or four minutes of us finishing the ropework. Crazy. She's a slippery little thing.

We tried another wrist binding next, and I was just darn chuffed with how it turned out. It was really simple and repetitive, so really easy to keep going up the arms and get it looking neater.

Cute right! Did I say there was nothing sweeter than two half-naked girls next to each other before? There is absolutely nothing sweeter than two immobilized half-naked girls next to each other.

So there's my first attempt at ropework. I was pretty psyched the whole evening to be honest, it was really comfortable, the GF was happy and Mr. Kinky Couple was very polite and comforting whenever he adjusted one of the ropes on the GF or something like that. After all this, we romped around the bedroom for a bit, both girls still mostly naked and then got into some sensation and impact play.

If you're interested in shibari, Mr. KC hooked me up with this book, which is where he learnt all the ropework he knows from: http://www.completeshibari.com/. It's quite cheap on Amazon and apparently really easy to follow.